I work with women to improve low self-esteem.
If you feel low on self worth, high on self doubt, and worry life’s passing you by, then self-esteem counselling could be right for you.
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Where better self-esteem begins…
We live in a high pressure world, where many factors can cause our self-esteem to falter. A difficult childhood, a hurtful comment or a toxic relationship can all damage our sense of worth. But low self-esteem can be renewed, repaired and replenished.
After completing our work together, many of my clients report a significant improvement in their self-esteem and self-confidence.
In person counselling £70
If you’re based in Saint Albans then I have beautiful counselling rooms right in the city centre.
In person counselling is an intense therapeutic experience where 50 minutes is put aside just for you. Your thoughts, feelings and emotions are the only focus of our sessions and my room provides the perfect comfortable, confidential and calming environment for this work.
Online counselling £70
If your schedule is packed from morning to night, or you don’t fancy the thought of face to face counselling, then online counselling provides most of the benefits, but with none of the logistical stress.
Virtual counselling can be carried out from the comfort of your own home, even in your lunch break, as long as you have an internet connection and a confidential space.
Whichever service you choose, I always offer a non-judgemental, empathic and confidential environment.
Interested?
It can feel like a big leap to commit to counselling sessions, so I offer a free 30 minute discovery call. This allows you to explore how you’re feeling and gives you the opportunity to decide whether you’d like to work with me.
To arrange this call, just email me with some suitable days and times and I’ll be in touch.
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Book review: The Kitchen Shrink by Dr Andrea Oskis
Self-esteem when you feel your body is failing you
Orthorexia, and its impact on women
Help! I can’t manage my moods
Therapy curious? Here’s everything you need to know
Self-esteem: Knowing exactly what works for you
World Mental Health Awareness Week 2025
The challenges to good self care (and how to overcome them)
The mental barriers stopping you from getting therapy
Self-esteem and neurodiversity
Forgiveness and self-esteem
3 surprising signs of low self-esteem
How to manage counselling when you find talking hard
Book Review: Do Nourish How to Eat for Resilience
Managing your mental health in the winter months
Rethinking divorce and separation
What you need to know if you’re thinking of starting counselling
Book review: Directional Living by Megan Hellerer
Help, I’m spiraling into depression
The benefits of low self-esteem
Surviving Christmas after loss or bereavment
Book Review: Not Just Mum by Claire Antill
Depression and low self esteem
Building self esteem by speaking out
What to expect from your first counselling session with me
Haunted by bad memories? Here’s how to move on
Book review: The power of Closure
5 things I’ve learnt in 5 years as a women’s self esteem specialist
Self loss and the path to rediscovery
Self-Esteem Faqs
Myths about therapy
Why counselling after a relationship break-up is a great idea
Book review: It’s on me by Dr Sara Kuburic
The lady vanishes – self-esteem and ageing
Getting good at self care, because you need to
Yoga, inclusivity and improved self esteem
Why your looks don’t matter as much as you think
Body confidence and self esteem
Inside Out 2: Therapy for adults
Meaningful connection and why it matters
Book review: How to Know a Person
Self-esteem and Separation
I Love mental health, but hate Mental Health Awareness Week
Social media and self-esteem. Why not take a break?
Self-esteem and motherhood
